Beyond Numbers: How Genuine Connections Triumph Over Follower Counts in the Digital Age

Why Authenticity Matters More Than Any Metric Online

Boris P.
3 min readSep 19, 2023
Lost in the digital crowd, I found my true voice.

Why I Stopped Obsessing Over Followers, and Why You Should Too

A few years back, I got caught up in a game I never thought I’d play. Chasing followers, likes, and shares became my daily grind, and it felt less like life and more like a relentless scoreboard. I believed that these numbers were the keys to my online success. Every time I posted something, I would wait impatiently, refreshing my page, hoping for an increase in these numbers.

But one day, an unexpected realization dawned on me, changing my perspective forever.

The Illusion of Big Numbers

A significant increase in followers would make my day, while stagnant numbers would leave me doubting my worth and questioning my content. When one of my posts caught fire, the joy was immense. Yet, the quiet echo of a less popular post often left me feeling downhearted.

On the surface, it might seem that a hefty follower count equals greater impact. Yet, I discovered that numbers can often paint a misleading picture. I came across accounts with thousands of followers that seemed hollow, with little engagement or genuine…

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Boris P.

Hey, I'm Boris: a father to two amazing kids, master of SEO, writer, investor, and strategist. I live a life fueled by diverse passions and interests.